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The Troubling News With Restless Legs Syndrome
Sakshi Singla 6/3/25 Sakshi Singla 6/3/25

The Troubling News With Restless Legs Syndrome

I've had a problem with my legs that's difficult to describe. Even though my body and mind are

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I felt isolated in shame after learning I had diabetes. Doing my insulin shots in public helped me accept it.
Sakshi Singla 6/3/25 Sakshi Singla 6/3/25

I felt isolated in shame after learning I had diabetes. Doing my insulin shots in public helped me accept it.

Last week, I was in a chic restaurant with colleagues blustering through semi-fake smiles, feeling acutely

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How I’ve Coped With a Common Sleep Condition Many Doctors Don’t Take Seriously: Restless Legs Syndrome
Sakshi Singla 6/3/25 Sakshi Singla 6/3/25

How I’ve Coped With a Common Sleep Condition Many Doctors Don’t Take Seriously: Restless Legs Syndrome

For two decades I’ve engaged in truly odd behavior to quell a mysterious problem: At night, my legs just

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After 2 divorces before 40, I learned a powerful lesson about attracting love
Sakshi Singla 6/3/25 Sakshi Singla 6/3/25

After 2 divorces before 40, I learned a powerful lesson about attracting love

It sounded like a scam. I was on the cusp of shelling out a large sum of money for someone who wasn’t

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I've been divorced twice, and now I'm finally in a healthy relationship at 44. Here's how I shifted my view on dating.
Sakshi Singla 6/3/25 Sakshi Singla 6/3/25

I've been divorced twice, and now I'm finally in a healthy relationship at 44. Here's how I shifted my view on dating.

By the time I turned 40, I always thought I'd be settled into a cozy suburban home with a

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How to Remain Present at Work While Processing a Divorce
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

How to Remain Present at Work While Processing a Divorce

The average American divorce can take anywhere from a few months to a year, according to

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Smoked brisket taco at Antique Taco in Bridgeport
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

Smoked brisket taco at Antique Taco in Bridgeport

I’ve lived in Chicago for almost 25 years, and while it’s difficult to find a taco I’d flatly call bad, the bar is

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I learned from my mistakes. To be a good stepmother, you must first love the kids' mom.
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

I learned from my mistakes. To be a good stepmother, you must first love the kids' mom.

Though I've been divorced for more than five years, I still consider my former role as stepmom one of

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We call ourselves 20-40-60. How an intergenerational friend group changed my life
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

We call ourselves 20-40-60. How an intergenerational friend group changed my life

My nerves buzzed as I waited for my 23-year-old friend I’d never met in person to join me for dinner.

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I changed my name for both of my failed marriages. I'm never doing it again.
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

I changed my name for both of my failed marriages. I'm never doing it again.

never felt particularly attached to my maiden name. When I met my first husband in my mid-20s, I held

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I Paid Someone $15,000 To Help Me Find The Right Man.
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

I Paid Someone $15,000 To Help Me Find The Right Man.

Does anyone really know how to successfully date? How do we know if the valuable, vulnerable time

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My on-again, off-again relationship with Mother’s Day
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

My on-again, off-again relationship with Mother’s Day

I inhaled before the tears welled. I wanted to tell him I was always sure I’d be a mom, but at

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How to cope with restless legs while traveling
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

How to cope with restless legs while traveling

Through the windows of an express train from Kyoto, Japan, to a whisky distillery on Mount

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A Foolproof Way to Respond to Awkward Personal Questions
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

A Foolproof Way to Respond to Awkward Personal Questions

I was enjoying myself at a business dinner when a colleague leaned in and caught me off guard.

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I Learned Poker and Applied It to Dating—I Found Love
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

I Learned Poker and Applied It to Dating—I Found Love

I spent over two decades learning hard lessons about love. Even after spending countless hours on

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What is Mother’s Day to a former stepmom?
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

What is Mother’s Day to a former stepmom?

When someone asks me if I have kids, I struggle to answer. The technical truth is no, but that doesn’t

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Ex Husband Divorce Lies Stepmom Kids Bond
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

Ex Husband Divorce Lies Stepmom Kids Bond

At the advice of a child psychologist, my boyfriend of six months put a picture of us in his apartment so

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Restless Legs Syndrome Sleep Treatment
Sakshi Singla 6/2/25 Sakshi Singla 6/2/25

Restless Legs Syndrome Sleep Treatment

I’d always known something was wrong with my legs. When I was a teenager, my best friend and

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What Getting Divorced in My 20s Taught Me About Love
Sakshi Singla 3/11/19 Sakshi Singla 3/11/19

What Getting Divorced in My 20s Taught Me About Love

When I was growing up in the 1990s, getting married wasn’t an “if” in the Midwest, but a “when”

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